Ever feel like you're watching your own life from the sidelines — knowing you're capable of more, but not sure how to get there? You Deserve This Sh*t by Jordan Tarver is the brutally honest, no-fluff guide for exactly that feeling. After hitting his own rock bottom, Jordan rebuilt his life from scratch, and this book is the roadmap he wishes someone had handed him. Inside, you'll learn how to pinpoint what's actually keeping you stuck, quiet the self-doubt that talks you out of every big move, find a direction that feels like yours, and take action without overthinking every step. It doesn't lecture you from a pedestal — it reads like a straight-talking friend who refuses to let you play small. Whether you're at a crossroads, burnt out, or just tired of waiting for "someday," this is the push you've been avoiding. Comes with a 30 day money back guarantee.
You Deserve This Sh*t — The No-Fluff Guide to Getting Unstuck, Finding Your Path & Becoming Your Best Self | Self-Help Book by Jordan Tarver | Paperback
- The Brutally Honest Guide to Figuring Out What's Actually Holding You Back
- Practical Steps to Rebuild Confidence & Quiet Self-Doubt for Good
- Find a Direction That Feels Like Yours — Not One You Borrowed From Others
- Written Like a Straight-Talking Friend, Not a Lecture From a Pedestal
- Perfect for Anyone at a Crossroads, Burnt Out or Tired of Waiting for "Someday"
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The Features That Could Finally Get You Unstuck For Good
Everything you need to figure out what's holding you back, rebuild your confidence and start moving toward the life you actually want.
Pinpoint what's actually keeping you stuck — and learn the exact steps to break out of the cycle, starting today.
Stop borrowing other people's definitions of success. This book helps you find a direction that genuinely feels like yours.
Practical tools to quiet self-doubt, rebuild your confidence from the ground up, and back yourself for once.
Learn how to make decisions and take action without spiraling through every possible outcome first.
Every chapter ends with real, doable steps — so you finish the book with momentum, not just motivation.
Build the habits and mindset of the person you keep saying you'll become. No fluff, no lectures — just the push you need.
Why This Book Could Change the Way You See Yourself Forever
🔓 Most Self-Help Books Motivate You. This One Actually Moves You.
Most self-help books leave you feeling inspired for a week — then life goes back to exactly how it was. You Deserve This Sh*t is built differently. Because every chapter ends with real, practical steps, you don't just read about change — you start making it. Jordan doesn't hand you vague mantras or recycled quotes. He hands you a roadmap, built from his own rock bottom, that shows you exactly how to get unstuck and keep moving. This is the book that turns "someday" into a starting date.
🗣️ Straight Talk Is Not Just Refreshing. It's What Actually Gets Through.
Most people assume they need another gentle pep talk — but if pep talks worked, you wouldn't still feel stuck. What actually creates change is honesty: someone naming the excuses you've been hiding behind and refusing to let you play small. Jordan writes like a straight-talking friend, not a guru on a pedestal — equal parts tough love and genuine belief in you. That's why readers say this is the first self-help book that didn't just make them feel good. It made them do something.
⭐ One Book Could Be the Push That Changes Everything.
Getting unstuck doesn't require a life overhaul, a retreat or a 12-step morning routine. It starts with one honest look at what's holding you back — and a clear next step. With practical exercises, real stories and a framework for finding your own path all laid out in one book, you can start today — without needing a coach, a course or hours of free time. Just open the book, do the work, and watch your momentum build one chapter at a time.
Dont Just Trust Us
Straight to the Point, No Nonsense and Genuinely Transformative
I have read The Compound Effect, Can't Hurt Me, The Power of Now and dozens of others. This book sits right up there with the best of them and honestly might be more readable than all of them. Jordan has a way of cutting straight through the noise and getting to the truth in a way that makes you uncomfortable in the best possible way. You finish each chapter feeling like you have been called out and cheered on at the same time. If you are feeling stuck in any area of your life — read this book immediately.
This Book Found Me at Exactly the Right Moment
I had been feeling stuck for over two years — same job, same routine, same excuses. A friend recommended this book and I read it in two sittings. Jordan writes like your most honest best friend, the one who tells you what you need to hear not just what you want to hear. I finished it and made three major decisions I had been putting off for months. I genuinely cannot remember the last time a book changed my actual behaviour this fast. Absolutely worth every penny.
The Only Self Help Book I Have Ever Finished and Then Read Again
I buy self help books constantly and finish maybe one in ten. This one I finished in three days and started again the following week. The way Jordan breaks down awareness, comfort zones and intentional living is so clear and so practical that you actually know what to do differently the moment you put it down. No fluff, no filler, no recycled advice you have heard a hundred times. Just honest, actionable, genuinely life changing content. This book deserves every single piece of praise it gets.
I Moved Cities, Changed Careers and Finally Feel Like Myself Again
I know that sounds dramatic but it is completely true. I read this book when I was at my lowest — stuck in a job I hated, living somewhere that made me miserable, too scared to change anything. Within three months of finishing it I had handed in my notice, moved to a new city and started working toward something I actually care about. Jordan does not give you empty motivation — he gives you a framework that actually works. This book is the nudge that changes everything.
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